The Power of Asking

Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how easy it is to feel like a burden when we ask for help. Can you relate? For me, I often tell myself that everyone is “busy” or “dealing with their own challenges,” and I should be strong and independent enough to handle whatever is in front of me on my own. I logically know that this kind of thinking isn’t accurate or helpful, yet those thoughts creep in anyway.

But in my heart, I know this: asking for support isn’t just okay—it’s a gift, both to ourselves and to those around us.

In the past few weeks, I’ve put this belief into practice. I’ve embodied it and experienced it firsthand. I can’t preach it if I won’t practice it, right? The response has been… nearly overwhelming.

Many friends have offered their heartfelt thoughts, prayers, and good vibes, which have given me strength and hope. A few have sent thoughtful trinkets and housewares that helped me settle into my new home. Others have given their time, offering open hearts and ears, simply listening. I’ve also received encouraging words through emails, texts, and direct messages—each arriving at the perfect time, just when I needed them most.

For me, the lesson has been clear: I have to be open—to share, to ask, and to receive. This creates space for someone else to give, leading to a beautiful exchange.

What a powerful reminder for me, and now for you, that your community is ready and willing to support you.

** Originally published 10/11/2024